Marisa Howard-Karp, MS
on
October 23, 2024

Family checklist: Getting ready for an IEP meeting

Whether you’re getting ready for your child’s 1st IEP meeting or their 10th, use this checklist to make sure you've got what you need to support your child.

Special Education

Families are an important part of the team that creates the IEP (Individualized Education Plan)

If you are a parent or caregiver, use this checklist to help make sure you are ready to work with the school team and help your child succeed. 

If you are an educator, share this with your families. It will help them come prepared and will let them know you value their input. And prepared families make the best partners!

If you’re new to the IEP process, check out Preparing for an IEP Meeting and then come back to this checklist when you’re ready.

This checklist is part of our IEP Welcome Kit, a customizable set of tools schools and families can use for a smooth IEP process.

As soon as you get the meeting invitation:

  • ☑ Tell the team now if you need a different date or time, or if you need to meet remotely (by video). Family members have the right to ask for a meeting at a time and place that works for them. 
  • ☑ Ask for an interpreter if you need one. It is the school district’s responsibility to find and pay for the interpreter. The earlier you ask for this, the easier it will be.

1-2 weeks before the meeting:

  • ☑ Ask the team to send the draft IEP and any evaluation reports ahead of time. These documents have A LOT of information and it can be helpful to have time to review them before the meeting. Pay special attention to the accommodations listed so you can ask questions about how those will help your child learn and suggest others, if needed. 
  • ☑ Share any new reports or letters from doctors or therapists with the IEP team. This can help you all make decisions about what your child needs to make progress at school. 
  • ☑ Tell the IEP team if you will be bringing any support people with you. You may bring anyone you’d like but the school does need to know ahead of time. 
  • Read about the IDEA (Individuals with Disabilities Education Act) so you understand how the school can support your child. 

The week of the meeting:

Interested in more resources like this? Request a free sample of our IEP Welcome Kit, which includes customizable versions of this checklist and other tools schools and families can use for a smooth IEP process.

  • Marisa Howard-Karp, MS

    Chief Operating Officer

    Marisa Howard-Karp has spent her career focused on improving access to health care and education, including 15 years providing professional development training to educators and social workers. As a parent and caregiver to four children with disabilities, she has been part of more than 40 IEP meetings (and counting) and has more experience than she wishes she needed navigating complex services and systems. She loves the work of making these systems easier for other families. She’s a non-profit lifer and a Georgia native who has made her home in the Boston area.

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